Cold aproaching ain't that bad.
But there is one thing, that broke me. And it happened more then once.
I am having a great converstation with a woman. It could be even hours long. At the end, I ask her for a contact, and she gives it.
Everything looks good. I write her to meet up again. And THEN she immediatelly responds with the good old "I have a boyfriends, so don't bother".
That really broke me.