fuck spinster

@tuxcrafting what even is it

@nik @tuxcrafting TERF instance, Extremist Feminists (the kind people love to make fun of), but as a bonus they also hate trans people

@Meeper @nik @tuxcrafting

- Out of 8,000+ users I've witnessed about 2 who genuinely hate trans people. There are a number of trans users on the site (transsexuals, mostly) who want more freedom to have the full conversation about gender.

- The discussion happening on Spinster right now is about porn being linked to sex trafficking, which is a horrible reason to hate it.

@alex @Meeper @nik >only 2
mate basically every user there that i had an interaction with hates trans people

@tuxcrafting @alex @Meeper @nik Yeah that’s not my experience with it. So many posts I saw were talking about “men invading womens spaces”. Nah, its a pretty terrible place.

However, I’m pleased that Alex runs the site (because its funny that a man runs the feminist site) and also that it contains them in a nice little box.

@shebang @Meeper @alex @nik it's like FSE, keeps crazies in a nice little blockable place so they don't metastase everywhere

@tuxcrafting @shebang @Meeper @alex @nik

> I've witnessed about 2 who genuinely hate trans people.

Never been a huge fan of #Spinster as a whole but I've found some nice users from there more recently. A big problem I'd run into would be the user I try to engage with is sexist and hates men; as soon as I replied to their messages, they'd accuse me of "mansplaining" and block me lol...far more people on that instance hate men than hate trans people

But again, that's not everyone, just my initial experience. My experience with the users is a bit better now.

@realcaseyrollins @tuxcrafting @shebang @Meeper @alex @nik they hate trans people because they consider them men.

Trans women ARE men. But nobody hates trans people as much as their supporters tell them they do 🤷🏼‍♀️

Wanting protection for women’s rights isn’t hating trans identified people 🙄

@mewmew @Meeper @tuxcrafting @realcaseyrollins @alex @nik @shebang

@Ladyfat @mewmew @Meeper @tuxcrafting @realcaseyrollins @alex @shebang
>nobody hates trans people as much as their supporters tell them they do

lol go tell that to my parents who held me down, emptied my pockets, then threw me onto the ground and told me to fuck off from their house for being trans

At what age? @nik @Meeper @mewmew @tuxcrafting @realcaseyrollins @alex @shebang

@Ladyfat @Meeper @mewmew @tuxcrafting @realcaseyrollins @alex @shebang i was thrown out by my parents at 18, the same month i graduated high school

So as an adult. 🙄

@nik @Meeper @mewmew @tuxcrafting @realcaseyrollins @alex @shebang

@Ladyfat @Meeper @mewmew @tuxcrafting @realcaseyrollins @alex @shebang they took my wallet, phone, cash, all possessions that were on me, destroyed my hrt, and told me to fuck off

they made me homeless for something out of my control, took my access to my own money from my job away from me.

It’s a shame they couldn’t have arranged mental health help before that stage. But you were an adult.

@nik @Meeper @mewmew @tuxcrafting @realcaseyrollins @alex @shebang

@Ladyfat @nik @Meeper @mewmew @tuxcrafting @alex @shebang Doesn't necessarily mean you should just have your stuff destroyed and get kicked out tho

No but we have no other context. At the end of the day you can’t force people to affirm the feelings of others. Nobody has to lie for anyone else, that includes parents.

@realcaseyrollins @nik @Meeper @mewmew @tuxcrafting @alex @shebang

@Ladyfat @realcaseyrollins @Meeper @mewmew @tuxcrafting @alex @shebang i didnt ask them to do anything, i didnt try to force any views on them, i didnt tell them to do anything, i merely came out to them and told them i was dysphoric and was taking hrt to ease that pain

@nik @Meeper @mewmew @tuxcrafting @alex @shebang @Ladyfat Yeah like you don't have to agree with someone's sexual habits for them to live in your house smh

If that person is asking you to call them a woman when they are a man you have absolutely the right to say “not in my house!”

@realcaseyrollins @nik @Meeper @mewmew @tuxcrafting @alex @shebang

@Ladyfat @nik @Meeper @mewmew @tuxcrafting @alex @shebang But that's not the case (see here: https://letsalllovela.in/objects/5b18767a-36ff-4b59-9f0d-a04bdd6692be)

Only abusers feel you should support them in everything without questioning.

He was 18 , so an adult. An adult choosing to take drugs not really intended for his sex class.

Parents/house owners have every right to decide who lives in their property.

@realcaseyrollins @nik @Meeper @mewmew @tuxcrafting @alex @shebang

@Ladyfat @realcaseyrollins @nik @Meeper @tuxcrafting @alex @shebang would you be fine with someone kicking out their kid for being gay?