@Jazzy_Butts money and yes
kinda yes anyway, non-youth gens definitely havent completely broken away from the patriarchal family mindset of men being providers, the younger adult gens have found that anyone providing at all is nigh impossible unless one party is rich (which tends to coincide with innate development of growing up an asshole), and theres also the whole sexual side where girls like "bad boys" and "fun boys" - though this goes both ways, guys like bratty sluts just as much, just nobody complains about that unless its a video game girl with a booty and skinny body type now