@beardalaxy Ah, well what is a better term? I can't just say I'm a normal guy who likes normal things because then normies will surround me and will freak out when I say "and 13yos can consent if they're advanced enough", that's a kick to my head, straight away.
@Jazzy_Butts sometimes it is better to just call yourself nothing and say nothing, or know your audience well enough to know what to say and what not to say.