@Kyou I actually am very attractive, but the fedi girls have to get it through their heads that I'm not facedoxing. I imagine the first few years of our dating we wouldn't see eachothers faces. Even if we do in person meets at a clandestine motel during a convention or something I'd want us both to be masked, then we can go on some more dates (while masked) and eventually, after a year or two, we will unmask for eachother, and it'll be like a superhero wedding.