@Bonebringer69 💯 "sex" is often confusingly analogous to penetration. When antis choose to make that confusion they often do so on purpose to make us seem disgusting. "You just want to rape that small hole" etc etc. When a caring MAP chooses to have "sex" with a young child they're more than likely not going to try to penetrate their partner. Grooming can involve physical comfort such as cuddling, massaging, sucking, cleaning and all activities we'd see in the animal world. The bond created is powerful and special and doesn't cease when someone turns "legal age" either.