If people have been talking about it for longer than a few years it's not a psyop.
People being hungry is not a psyop. Taxes being too high is not a psyop. Both these things are real. Pussy hats were a psyop. Hole in the ozone layer was a psyop.
No, I did not learn to accept my gender identity from people on the Internet.
I learned to accept my gender identity by reading conventional books from the library. I recommend reading lots of them.
Some people learn best from fantasy literature, which teaches helpful ideas in the form of parable. Others learn best from philosophy, biographies, of science periodicals.
In all types of literature, you can run across ideas that can open your mind and help you understand yourself.
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