@matana
Ok... I am sorry if this question will sound weird, but I myself have not even managed to form my thoughts about this concept yet. But while talking to many women on fediverse and IRL, I have noticed a disturbing patern.

How much do you want to have a family and kids one day? Most men I know do literaly LIFE for that thing. They wake up and go to work, study, risk their lives and save money on their bank account only so it will be used when they will have a family and a kind wife. And if you deny them the option, they willl go into years long depression.

Yet, when I talk to women, I get phrases like "I don't feel like I need a man right now". You would NEVER get most men to say such a terrifying sentance.