@matana
Nah, I am as autistic as they get before the problems get severe...

But I do not need meds and never needed them. I needed a guide, that was simply not avaiable.

When you're autistic, most common lies do you much more hurt then to others. Because you know the people are not lying, they are honest, but stupid. And you cannot tell kind lies apart from honest truth. Because you do not even get the concept.

-Men and women are equal:
Lie. Men and women are treated completelly differently across all layers of society.

- You should share with others because it's nice

- Girls will like you for being kind

It is this kind of "lie" that most people say while thinking they are just being nice that do an autistic kid most damage. Because the autistic kid does not understand that people do lie without realizing it. And the one thing that "cured" me was when I finally started listening to people like Aaron Clarey, TFM, RGE etc. People who do take it as a priority to say things with radical levels of honesty.

Once an autistic person realizes the problem, it can be included in his decisions. But noone was arsed to say whings honestly to me, when I needed it the most.

If someone sit with me, and carefully explained that stupid people are liars, and that it's important to lie to fit in, I would have completelly different childhood.