@matana
Yeah, the gaslighting can make one crazy. Especially if there's noone to support you. My step mom did this shit all the time and almost drove me to suicide.
But, the interesting fact is that even though, I lived with 3 other people, one saw througg it immediatelly, second after 5 years. But it took my dad over 15 years to accept that that wench wasn't ever rational...