@matana @mig
> I *live* with a man
I do not doubt that. But you have never spoken with him as a man. So, try asking him, if he ever opened up to a woman only so she will laugh her ass off for him being sad/depressed/afraid. This does not happen almost ever from a man.

I am sad to tell you this, but a man does not have a problem to know that crying is ok, but to know that his cry will not be used as a weapon against him mere minutes later. And that is something woman has to be proving for years and not break once. Because this kind of trust is what man want and NEVER get.

Well..... at least from a woman