When I think about it, the entire topic got extremely heated the moment I said, that it is a woman's fault of she becomes a single mom.

And she is considering becoming a single mom at the moment, so I get why it might have hit a nerve, but... it's funny.

She chose the guy. Why should I pretend it wasn't her choice?

@LukeAlmighty Third possibility, she's starting to project.

@AGARTHA_NOBLE
What do you mean?

@LukeAlmighty "Oh, if my 35 year old Vegan Single Mother friend can Get It, then I've got nothing to worry about!"

@AGARTHA_NOBLE
Makes kinda perfect sense

I heard of projection many times, but damn, is it not intuitive

@LukeAlmighty she thought you needed someone to hit and forget before starting your quest for Ms. Trad?

@LukeAlmighty
News flash, women don't do that thinking thing you are familiar with.

@LukeAlmighty It's both, mixed with stupidity

@LukeAlmighty Its not malevolent per se. Women will ALWAYS try and two birds one stone a solution. In this event, she thought she was helping both of yall.

But women will ALWAYS try and set up their single mother friends over anyone else. EVERY time.

@TaylorSwift
Nature...

A strange anwser... Not sure how to untangle that one.

@LukeAlmighty It's pretty straightforward: Women suck but its not their fault

@LukeAlmighty @TaylorSwift

> Not sure how to untangle that one.

It's a matter of what the question is. Your question is "What's the best woman I can get?" and hers is "Which of my friends needs a boyfriend the most?" Not really about malice or incompetence on her part, just that she picked the one that had the most trouble finding a guy.

@p @TaylorSwift
I guess I cannot get over the fact she didn't spend a single second to think about needs of her step brother, and instead focused on needs of some parasite on this society.

@LukeAlmighty @TaylorSwift If she doesn't think of that person as a parasite and thinks of her as someone that needs a boyfriend, it's easier to understand. In the general case, it's more common for women to pick sympathy over ambition, which is why they tend to skew left when voting and men tend to skew right. (It's like a 60/40 split, which matches a little too neatly the 60/40 aggression split.)

@p @TaylorSwift
I wish I saw the same, but I have NEVER seen a woman show anything even resembling sympathy.

@LukeAlmighty @p Jesus lmao what kind of turbovirgin are you

@TaylorSwift @p
Oh, I am sure you are a complete paragon of sympathy who bought entire 2 charity stickers at McDonalds, but guess what? That does not quite make the cut in my opinion.

I am a guy who is tired of lying just to keep your fragile egos.

@LukeAlmighty @p lmfao what

@p @TaylorSwift @LukeAlmighty

Nietzsche pointed out that aggression was necessary to thoroughly solve problems instead of come up with socially-acceptable but low-commitment partial solutions.

@amerika @TaylorSwift @LukeAlmighty I'm a big fan of judicious use of aggression. Leopards are very angry and spiteful: even if it gets them killed in the process, they'll kill another animal just to prove a point. Tigers pick their battles. Lions, at the other extreme, are bitches.

It is the year of the tiger pretty soon, incidentally.

@p @TaylorSwift @LukeAlmighty

I like aggression as a mental state: if something is wrong, fix it as thoroughly as possible. Oppose stupidity, incompetence, insanity, perversity, and other evils.

Common sense stuff really.

Also: distrust easy answers like those provided by the herd.

https://www.amerika.org/politics/mass-formation/

@amerika @TaylorSwift @LukeAlmighty Is that aggression or conscietiousness?

Also I like the header image on this post, this should be fun.

@p @TaylorSwift @LukeAlmighty

Of course, it's from one of the greatest movies of all time.

Conscientiousness implies a certain amount of getting along with the group and following procedure.

Aggression is relentless goal orientation.

I'm an ends-over-means kind of dude, dogmatically and thoroughly at this point.

Anything else is rationalization (means-over-ends).

@amerika @TaylorSwift @LukeAlmighty Conscientiousness is orthogonal to getting along, it's prioritizing getting things *correct*. It's the lawful-chaotic axis.

@p @TaylorSwift @LukeAlmighty

Aggression may be less obedient and sociable, which is useful, since being sociable while well-intended quickly leads to autodomestication and autoinfantilization.

@p

And additionally her better picks are probably taken

@LukeAlmighty @TaylorSwift

@LukeAlmighty
>Is is still even possible to not rule out stupidity in this extreme case?
I mean she's a woman, so...

@LukeAlmighty Why not bring up that you don’t want to raise another man’s child, her fault or not?

@NEETzsche
It was a short argument.
And I did... It just was such a strange argument, I am figguring it out a week later

Almost as if she NEVER heard that single moms are bad dating prospect, and that it is their choices that brought them there.

@NEETzsche
Well, I said the reverse.
I said, that I want MY KIDS too. And she understood that part.

@LukeAlmighty I can’t tell other people how to live their lives, but when I get into these situations, I avoid blame game shit because it never works. I just tell them that I am behooved to do X so therefore I will. I will take them at face value that it isn’t their fault, but so what? Am I supposed to fix your life, lady? It sounds cold but this idea that I am obligated to self-sacrifice is unacceptable. If I do that, it’s because I choose, not because I’m commanded.

@LukeAlmighty unless she was raped, she has no possible way to say it's not in any way her fault

@LukeAlmighty you seriously and truly need to log off, this is a wildly disproportionate reaction to being set up with someone you’re incompatible with and you sound like a fucking baby who lashes out at anybody who’s life doesn’t fit into your ideal, despite the fact that you’re a grown ass man with no wife or children who’s sperm count and potential sexual desirability is dropping by the day, get a grip and stop blaming everything on random women

@essie
Finally some psycho.

I was afraid it's going to be just an intelligent debate in here.

@LukeAlmighty if you spoke to a real person in the real world and showed them those posts, they would say the exact same thing, a grown ass man who spends all day posting memes and anime women on the internet, along with unhinged screeds about his female family members, is not desirable to any mentally stable young woman looking to start a family

@essie
Oh no... An internet wahmen says I should spend my money on some thugh's crouch fruit and a wahmen incapable of basic decision making.

What shall I do? Oh god... How will I spend all that money without 3 parasites around my neck?

@essie
Aaand I am blocked.

@essie @LukeAlmighty 35yo single mom vegan. I'm surprised and upset he didn't beat her until she left (reminiscing about past baby-daddies)

@applejack Well said applejack of all people LMAOOO

@LukeAlmighty I don’t know your sister, but it could be as simple as “I like my friend, (therefore) she would make a good girlfriend”

She probably didn’t consider you wanting kids of your own tbh, that’s just not part of her worldview.