My step sister offered me to find a GF.
I thought, shat ahe will fuck it up, but damn...
She thought that a: 35 years old, single mother, vegan teacher would be a great offer.
Damn, I think she's gone completely insane.
I am still so disturbed by this. She is a dumb hippie, but is she totally apathetic to my well being?
There are 2 options:
Either:
She is so brainwashed, she does not realize, that I might also want to have kids of my own one day, I might also preffer a woman without serious mental issues, AND I might want a wife who will not torture me for eating a food, that is 3/4 of my caloric intake.
Or:
She is truly malevolent. She cared about her friends more then about her step brother, and hoped, that I won't notice, that that kind of person would ruin my life.
Is is still even possible to not rule out stupidity in this extreme case?
When I think about it, the entire topic got extremely heated the moment I said, that it is a woman's fault of she becomes a single mom.
And she is considering becoming a single mom at the moment, so I get why it might have hit a nerve, but... it's funny.
She chose the guy. Why should I pretend it wasn't her choice?
@NEETzsche
It was a short argument.
And I did... It just was such a strange argument, I am figguring it out a week later 
Almost as if she NEVER heard that single moms are bad dating prospect, and that it is their choices that brought them there.
@NEETzsche
Well, I said the reverse.
I said, that I want MY KIDS too. And she understood that part.
@LukeAlmighty I can’t tell other people how to live their lives, but when I get into these situations, I avoid blame game shit because it never works. I just tell them that I am behooved to do X so therefore I will. I will take them at face value that it isn’t their fault, but so what? Am I supposed to fix your life, lady? It sounds cold but this idea that I am obligated to self-sacrifice is unacceptable. If I do that, it’s because I choose, not because I’m commanded.
@LukeAlmighty Why not bring up that you don’t want to raise another man’s child, her fault or not?