I am sorry, but I just have to say it.

Single mother logic is the most halarious shit possible.

"I am looking for a SMART and RESPONSIBLE guy"

And then, she asks him to do the dumbest and least respoinsible choice possible.

@RikaDerufu
Because they need someone to feed their crouch fruit.

Why do you think they would ask him that?

@LukeAlmighty from my point of view there's higher chances for a single mom to commit and settle down, for obvious reasons. She's probably the type of woman less inclined to cheat or in general to be the one breaking up first. If a man does not care about the kid/kids not being his biological offspring and at the same time is ready to commit, I see a single mom as probably the best type of woman for this.
>taking care of kids that are not yours is a cuck move
I do not agree in the slightest, and I find this position pretty cringe and partially blind. If a woman already has kids it means she was ready to commit, but thing didn't turn out well. Also here im thinking about all those mom and kids who escaped a violent husband/father, or cases in which the husband/father is dead. Do they not deserve to grow with a father figure, even it being not the biological one?

For obvious reasons I've never dated single mothers and never will, just stating my opinion
@LukeAlmighty for example, I would be open to date a man with kids whose ex wife is dead. Those kids still deserve love and a mother figure, I wouldn't care if they are not "mine"

@RikaDerufu
I said a single mom
I did not say a widow.

PLEASE, learn the difference for the love of GOD.

@LukeAlmighty what's "intrinsically" bad about a single mom? Couldn't be the case of her escaping a relationship with a man abusive towards her and the kids, which is pretty common? Or her leaving a relationship with a neglecting/absent father? I just don't see what's wrong with them, or at least why they are usually put on a lower step than "30 yr old childless CEO of a business"

@RikaDerufu
> Couldn't be the case of her escaping a relationship with a man abusive towards her and the kids, which is pretty common?

Exactly. Problem number one: She has a crazy ex.
Problem number 2: She is atracted to crazy people more then to you.

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@RikaDerufu
3rd, They will refuse to fufill your birth right, (to have a child)
4th, They want you to pay for a birth right of abusive asshole.
5th, It's your kid... as long as you agree with her. if not, it's her kid again in every argument.

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@RikaDerufu
6th You will never know if she loves you or your vallet.
7th Did I meantion the crazy ex??? I mean, seriously XD

@LukeAlmighty >you never know if she loves you or your wallet

dude that's like... literally every single woman ever? Any woman could be attracted to your wallet except one whos gaining more than you

@RikaDerufu
Anyway...
After all the points I wrote, do you see the logic behind why dating a single mom is the "dumbest and least respoinsible choice possible"?

@LukeAlmighty i get your point, i still think it's too much of a generalization. it would be really interesting to see statics on how long 2nd marriages with kids last, and if they last more than 1st

@RikaDerufu
How long they last is not important, if she denies you the "right" to have a child.

(obviously the "right" word is used here from a different way then a legal one :D)

@LukeAlmighty you can still have a child with her if she's not too old 🤔

@RikaDerufu
Now, we're getting into the "what if I win a lottery" cattegory.

@RikaDerufu
BTW, my father did raise a child of another man too. But that was after he had 2 kids of his own.

I have nothing against the concept of raising a child of another man, as long as it does not take away from your own heritage.

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