I saw a cute girl today.
I wanted to say something smart to start conversation.
Computers are ruining everything.
She immediatelly says "no they're not" even before I can start my explanation. It's obvious she doesn't care.
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1 hour later, she cannot sell me a product, because a computer doesn't allow it.
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The joke was the last part, but suuure. I will never joke about things that do fit in context.
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But you know what? today is a national holiday of fucking democracy out all all the shit, so I have a bad mood anyway.
Please, tell me what fucking topics should I master in to have anything interesting to talk about with women.
you're still thinking like a man. women want to bond and relate to another person, not have technical discussions lol
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> you're still thinking like a man.
Oh, who would have thought : o
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But yeah. I am autistic, and I know I might sound like a troll.
But how am I supposed to relate, when I cannot even ask on an opinion on ANY interesting subject? Is that even "relating" really?
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I literally just asked you for advide on how to get to the "talk to" phase, and your response is "don't be a pussy, you're just pretending to be retarded"
Well, thanks for nothing I guess. At least I know what you mean by "empathy" now.
no, I gave you advice, and then what I said was "you're being lazy and using autism as a crutch". I never said you're pretending to be "retarded" nor did I call you that.
try to avoid politics
@LukeAlmighty Oh no, sorry, no, the vagina IS NOT A PRODUCT!
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@LukeAlmighty yeah bringing up computers causing problems immediately isn't the best way to strike conversation with a rando.
It's better to ask questions based on things you might notice about them that they can then ask you about. Ask about their job and what they like or dislike about it, you'll likely immediately find things to relate with and maybe crack a joke about. If they have a tattoo you can ask what the story behind it is and go from there. Something I've noticed a lot is that people ask where I'm from, and then I ask them, and we compare the places we live and why we like them or what brought us there. As cliche as it sounds, talking about the weather isn't that bad as long as you can add something to it or crack a joke about it instead of just a plain observation (add some personality). If it's the weekend, asking if they have any plans and then reacting to whatever they say positively is good. Even if they just say "ah I'm just working" you can still say it's good to keep busy, but that it's good to get some rest too.
Over everything, just keep the conversation positive. You don't want to dwell on anything negative and it definitely shouldn't be the conversation starter. More serious or theoretical/existential topics can happen later, and happen naturally.
The last girlfriend I had, I started talking to about the musicians on stage at an open mic. Then I got to ask what her favorite was and why, and since I like music a lot we could go back and forth on it. That ended up going toward a song she heard in a penguin documentary and I found out she liked penguins, so on our first date I gave her a little penguin plush. The only time we got into more serious talks was when it was just the two of us alone, driving at night from somewhere or sitting at a fire when the mood and timing was right.
breh, women don't give a shit about that