Beating it to a woman is cheating? It's not exactly alpha male behavior but come on. Are fantasies cheating, too? What about just watching the videos and not fapping, is that OK? Sounds like a controlling wife to me.
I guess I can understand if the guy has a porn addiction and it's affecting his sexual life with his wife but if not, it's just preference.
But still, crying over this shit? On video? Couldn't they have the argument with his wife then let it cool down and then make the video? It's all theater