It's really depressing I don't have a solid chat group of fedi frens. I an thinking of officially announcing giving up on trying to find fedifrens to chat with, it's clear I make people uncomfortable and they don't want to chat with me or only want to chat with me for the freak show aspect and get bored when I turn out to be a normal person with average moral values.
@Jazzy_Butts Yeah, that is a huge problem of internet friendships. Even if we were compatible, after that, we cannot meet anyway, so there is no real reward anyway.