@Mr_NutterButter
Yeah, that makes sense, but my question is, why don't they go all in then, like boys do?

I know, this might sound lame, but lately, I realized a kind of weird meter. Friends don't want to keep you for themselves. I did find a group of girls, who weren't afraid to go all in full bros mode with me. But that is fucking rare. How often do these "i want boy...friends" kind of girls actually offer anything beside their presence?

It kinda also solves the loneliness paradox to begin with. If every girl you got the horny for just introduced you to 3 friends, you wouldn't feel desperate when hanging out with her. It's simple math