@wizardmanperson
Thanks, I hate this deeply.
While I have mixed feelings about DR K, I love his analogy for trauma.
You have a mental health glass. And you add 5 drops of piss into it. Now, it doesn't matter how much clean water you add, it will never remove the piss.
@wizardmanperson
I am not writing healthygamergg. That is way too long, and retarded name :D
@wizardmanperson
He's insanely soy (read indian), so you cannot expect any great breakthrough from him, but he's still a highly educated shrink, who focuses on the issues of neets without jumping straight to "muh toxic masculinity", so you can get some bits of wisdom from him occasionally.
@wizardmanperson
I guess my problem with the line is, that I am reading it from an ultra-individualistic baseline. Radical ownership is a philosophy, that held me throughout my entire childhood, and only recently did I finally find strength to start letting go.
But, that's what I hate about psycho-shit on internet in general. No matter who you think your audience is, someone who absolutely needs to hear the opposite will hear it too and take it way more personally than the correct guy.
And when talking about trauma (the real kind), we are getting to the edges of this point.
How much one can overcome it, or if one can do it at all, is a different conversation.
The alternative would be not discuss any person's actions at all.