I am really starting to think, that 95% of the pedophilia debate was caused and is propagated by the holywood constantly mis-casting people.
The first picure is "TEENAGE" Dexter.
Women in the movie Grease were played by 30year olds etc...
And think about it... how often does an adult who stopped dating actually interact with kids enough to know their ages? I don't even ask most people around me. But, in TV shows, the fake age is always an important part.
So, if you see that 30yo woman and think that's unironically what a 17yo looks like, your opinion on the topic will be just random screeching.
It's just another result of the atomization of society. Sad really.
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I do question them lately a lot, because they are in fact ruining my life.
Serious question:
How can you ecpect to ever be a good father, when the only association between an old man youching a young kid is pedophilia? I do not want that thought to ever cross my mind, when taking care of my kids. I had one "absent" working parent, and the 2nd one hated my existence. I want to never hesitate to support my kids.
And that realization, that the thought exists in there shook me to my core. If I have one fight I realized I need to tackle next, it is the fight against expectations, that will stop me from acting moral.
