I'll tell you why as a man who likes men.
I never wanted anything more than equality. I wanted equal and fair treatment under the law. I never wanted to be pandered to or coddled because you didn't want to be seen as "homophobic".
I never wanted businesses to be bullied for their own beliefs and practices.
I never wanted to be seen as "transphobic" for not wanting to have sex with a trans person. I never wanted to see shitty cliché gay characters shoved into media because of ✨ representation✨
Normal people don't care about who you sleep with, but homosexual male community has a serious issue with making who they stick their dick in a huge part of their identity.
People are pushing back because they're annoyed as fuck.
@picandor honestly that's the only thing that put me off about the group is how people literally crafted their entire identity around who they want to sleep, with like I get it, that doesn't mean you have to crft your entire personality around it, it just feels fake and forced because if they want to be seen as normal and simply put just don't draw any attention to it you know what I mean if it's a healthy relationship then it's a healthy relationship nothing more than that.
