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@lamp pedophilic disorder isn't even diagnosed if it doesn't cause distress. pedophilia in general is incredibly sensationalized/weaponized and i would consider that a bad thing because when it gets like that, i believe it CAN cause distress. people get in their own head about it and start to freak out, maybe get depressed or do something rash. especially if there is something like childhood trauma that caused someone to think this way, or other mental issues.

even though many of my views are controversial (the circle i'm visiting just changes which ones are), i try my best to be as level-headed as possible and not let sensationalism get to me if i can help it. i feel like people wanting to kill/maim or otherwise harshly punish pedophiles are very similar to say, people who want to punch nazis or remove their rights for saying things they disagree with. two sides of the same coin. beliefs and thoughts should not be met with actions, they should be met with civilized debate, study, and philosophy.

killing or torturing someone who has technically done nothing wrong (and may have just had wrong done to them) is highly unethical and heartless from my point of view.

it's highly hypocritical when it is coming from people who advocate for free speech and to be left the fuck alone because they aren't doing anything harmful. you know that people who disagree with what you have to say would strip you of your rights (or worse) in an instant if they could, so why is it okay to do that to others?

two relevant quotes below:

Sorry try again, you destroy a child life and you want me to give you a chance to do it again or even do it. It's a very dangerous mental illness and destroy children that have 0 ways of defending themselves I'll that take burned on my back poor victims. Some things cannot be cured and if you are a pedophile I'd advise to you to cure yourself before others do it.

It's not a rabid dog's fault it contracted rabies, but it still needs to be put down regardless.

@Hoss @beardalaxy @Mackiavelli13 Is it really like rabies though? If it's merely the passive ability to get sexually aroused, I'd think it be no harder to manage than sexual attraction to adults.

I've only known one pedophile, whom said they have a "line" and only consumed lolicon content. They seemed like a perfectly fine person, but seemed to be under tension of the social stigma. I don't know them anymore, but are you saying there's a good chance they might cause harm in the future?

it always starts by small things like drugs or anything that creates dopamine. One day it will lead them to more and more . And I'd rather not let them have that chance. Such is life.

@Mackiavelli13 @lamp @Hoss that's just eugenics, which i believe is highly unethical. it's hard for me to wrap my head around the idea that some people would rather have people be killed for no more than thoughts. you are willing people to escalate those thoughts with your rhetoric. you want to believe so much that these people are going to be horrible enough to actually harm a child so that you can demonize them, rather than offering some help and preventing that from occurring. it's highly irrational.

@beardalaxy @Mackiavelli13 @lamp @Hoss I was abused as a child, a lot of people were, you have to understand that it is not a philosophical question without consequences. Rabid hate of pedophiles is a sane reaction in a society that aims to protect children. Hens don't let the foxes into the coop

I second this. takes lots of work to be able to talk about it as well.

@Mackiavelli13 @beardalaxy @lamp @Hoss Strangely i am able to unload with strangers and was never able to talk to my mother about it, i guess i just don't want to add to the bullshit burden we had to deal with

@sunshinetadpole @Mackiavelli13 @beardalaxy @lamp @Hoss I also think it's a little easier to drop this type of shit on people you don't know. I think no matter how at peace you are with trauma you're always a little afraid people you know will look at you different or think you're lying or weak. Abuse just fucks your head and you either do the work or let it consume you. Its fucking dreadful.

Indeed and it's hard to have a normal social life anyway. You kind of are black pilled early and you then to find shit that people talk bout normally quite boring and superficial . Well in my case.

@Mackiavelli13 @lamp @SwattySquad @sunshinetadpole @Hoss being black pilled is lame tbh. you can still have fun. don't be like patrick getting his head swapped out with brain coral and becoming too smart to hang out with spongebob. enjoy life and the people around you while you still can.