@Remi i know that in my case this was because of completely inept parenting
@roboneko @Remi "here jimmy, have this laptop (now smartphone) with unlimited internet access, see where your curious child mind takes you!"
And yeah there is a good reason why women have always eaten up erotica involving stuff like BDSM. Many of them like to be dominated, plain and simple. Porn is fucked, obviously, but it is in some ways a reflection of actual human sexuality.
> Porn is fucked, obviously