Shoot your local pornographer.

@Remi i know that in my case this was because of completely inept parenting

@beardalaxy @beardalaxy @Remi yup my immediate thought isn't "shoot the pornographers" it's "wtf are the parents doing"

my second thought is, if you survey adult women how many will express a preference for (consensual, obviously) physical aggression to at least *some* degree? probably a significant fraction. there's data of varying reputability on this stuff floating around but I don't have it to hand