@matana i know and it's retarded, but i know there are a lot of people who have made the decision to leave a religion and then just subscribed to a different "religion" and done the same thing, playing along with it. i see it all the time. so here i am trying to appeal to that initial decision: why did they leave their religion? if it is because they didn't agree with it, then why stick with a community that follows ideals they also do not agree with?