@Mr_NutterButter i've learned that if someone tries hard to hurt you, and they're super vindictive and everything, then it's usually a problem with THEM and it's best to take a step back from that relationship until they can figure things out. you don't need the kind of toxicity that brings. it sounds like you don't necessarily have that toxicity in your life right now but are planning on it happening, and that just brings negative energy all around.