I can vouch for not hating people if you are never around them. I didn't really hate jews until I had to deal with them more often, mostly online, and Indians have proved this in real time. I don't think anyone felt hostile to them in like 2010, in fact the vibe I got from White Nationalists was mild respect like they felt towards East Asians.
I can't vouch for the interracial interest/fetishism leading to hate.
@RealRaul is this true?
Also don't get mad at your wife for your kids looking like her.