ADHD bingo
I'm surprised by home many of these apply to me.
NOTE: People don't tell me that I'm lazy, but "Myself" tells "Me" that I'm lazy. It's just as bad.
i’ll probably continue to be poor and work minimum wage jobs for the rest of my life and that’s okay
@pantransautie Awesome! That's a great place to be.
Yo I need to write a review for #DevsFX when the show ends
@wabbster Oh wow! This used to happen to me before I started listening to music, radio, or podcasts while coding.
@realcaseyrollins Currently working on an HTML table. Randomly thought of a fact. Googled. Now I'm on Mastodon writing this toot. Gah.
Long boring ADHD post
This is super applicable, although I wasn't aware of all these things consciously, I've figured out how to deal with a lot of them:
> Prevent Frustration
I try to work with as little people in the room as possible. Humming, singing, and my new #FidgetCube helps, too. Moving (or, rarely, dancing), helps too. What I've found is, strange as it may sound, while studying in a classroom, pacing on a table provides the perfect amount of rush that I need.
> Create Interest
I make things interesting by making them funny; adding quips in my notes keeps me interested in them when I read them, as I love jokes and humor. For gamification, I pay attention to the grades I get on my homework (which I actually used to procrastinate in reading because I was afraid I didn't get a good grade). I'm actually realizing that if I apply myself, no matter how hard it may be, I'll see the end result eventually.
> Externalize
I've been doing this for a long time, finally personifying my internal and external characters as "me" (external) and "myself" (internal). Myself is a far harsher critic than Me.
Example:
* I get a bad grade *
Myself: See, this is why you should've studied more. This is all your fault for spending too much time with your friends.
Me: Nothing wrong with spending time with friends. Friends are more important than grades. Nothing I can do about the grade now, I just need to prioritize my time better, and study earlier so I can still hang out with my friends.
Source: http://adhd-alien.com/2019/07/16/studying-with-an-alien/
@pantransautie Man, I'm sorry. That's really hard to go through.
I'm finally getting through it by realizing that I won't be able to get the thing that it is that I want (in my case personally, a relationship) without taking risks. Even if I fail, I have a higher chance of success if I just try.
I can rarely focus on just one thing at a time; if I try, catchy music or super distracting thoughts will pop into my head and keep me from actually paying attention to what people are saying.
Strangely, it's easier for me to focus on someone (like if someone is talking) if I'm * not * looking at him or her at all. I suppose I'm stimulated by audio, and video is just distracting.
I RELATE TO THIS SO MUCH
ADHD
Although I do have a few of the ADHD-HI ones too, which is why I said "somewhere between ADHD-C and ADHD-I" initially.
>Be impatient
>Have difficulty waiting for things they want
>Often interrupt conversations or others' activities
The interrupting thing is less due to hyperactiveness and more due to wanting to blurt a thing out before I forget it, though, which I feel is still an ADHD-I symptom personally.
ADHD (-)
Sometimes I change the topic of conversation abruptly because I have this deep fear that if I don't speak my thought right away I'll forget it and it'll be gone forever. Other times I'm so focused on holding onto all the thoughts it seems like I'm not paying attention. Both things make people think I don't care about what they're talking about, which absolutely isn't true. But it's so hard to explain, and I feel guilty and blame myself every time.
ADHD (-)
@Lexi For me I've figured out that writing down or typing out thoughts I plan on remembering, and punching dates I need to remember, really helps alleviate this stress, as I won't lose the idea or forget the event, especially if it's in digital form and I can easily search for it.
ADHD; twitter link
@Lexi Honestly, thank you so much for posting this.
ADHD; twitter link
I really like this person's comics. Talking to her about my own experiences was probably the first time I thought that maybe what I have counts as ADHD.
I've moved over to @realcaseyrollins for my private account
This is literally just here to archive my old posts now