Unironically, I feel gaslit by many women in my life.

@LukeAlmighty didn't you already have this conversation about laundry NOT being just 'throw clothes in the machine'

@tomie
Except....... No

@LukeAlmighty well, instead of complaining about "gaslighting" how about you ask yourself why OP never bothered to help with the laundry

@tomie
Well, some women literally won't let you help.

Sorry to burst your bubble, but I would got shouted on whenever I tried.

@LukeAlmighty because your "help" most likely consisted of retarded shit like pouring fabric softener in the wrong section
and I mean actual help

@tomie
> Women won't teach sons to do chores
> Women complain men don't know how to do chores
> Women refuse to lem men help with chores, because they don't know already...

Must be the patriarchy.

@LukeAlmighty >he pretends he doesn't know about weaponized helplessness

@tomie
Exactly. You have created a logical loop, where you do nothing to change the situation even when a guy is literally telling you he wants to do better, and you can still blame him no matter the outcome.

You just refuse to let go of being miserable. Because your pride is built on suffering even on something as simple as laundry.

@LukeAlmighty so you claim that your or OP's inability to do laundry and your pride in that is somehow my or OP's ex-wife fault

@tomie
No. You literally switched it around.
I am saying, that laundry is the easiest of chores. But, I seriously don't expect you to listen at this point, since you jumped into a feminist mode again.

@LukeAlmighty if you're saying that, it's like signing a giant legal paper saying "I CAN'T ACTUALLY DO LAUNDRY"
not a big problem if it's just you and your ruined clothes; a huge problem when dad does laundry and kids suddenly develop a rash