I seriously am slowly starting to fall in love with the women brain fart of "but then he showed his TRUE intention" (meaning sex, obviously). The guy had spent 2 months with you, took care of you, but you are angry that he likes you?
Do you want guys to marty you in an exclusive together-cel pair till a death does you apart?
@LukeAlmighty he doesn't "like" you, he either wants to possess you, or make a notch and disappear
@tomie
Suuure.
So, he spends time with you, because he doesn't like you and wants to disappear.
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@LukeAlmighty moids are incapable of liking anyone, much less someone they don't even perceive as human; they might ogle at animals they intend to kill and praise them, but what it's worth when it only leads to them killing it anyway
@LukeAlmighty that's cuz they aren't ❤️
@tomie @LukeAlmighty i've had stranger women shower me with compliments and the like just so i would sleep with them, i've even had one of them grab me and try to drag me into going to their place when i discerned that that was her Goal.
does it mean that all women automatically view me as a Human Dildo just because i am Tall, Well Built, and good looking?
no, that isn't the case at all, i can just discern with my own logic and empathy that that is not what is happening, some women who approached me may have been going in with genuine intent to actually get to know me.
the fact of the matter is, because i was shy and didn't take initiative, but because i looked attractive to many, most of my encounters would have the woman as the initiator, and it's just much more likely that it would be a whore looking for a quick fix.
also, i realized this not so long ago, women are quite ass at flirting tbh, the worst would get into the realm of Sexual harassment, and while many lonely dudes would say that they would love it if they did that, especially if the woman herself happens to have taken "advice" from someone in her friend group, it's really just awkward, doubly so for lonely guys (you can't even hold a non-sexual conversation, what makes you think you can talk to a woman when she is being suggestive, what do you think is gonna happen? you're gonna raise your hands up and she'll undress you? get real dawg).
you would fail to have a stable relationship if there isn't Trust both ways, if one partner trusts the other but the other can't find it in them to trust them, then it's just not going to work.
of course, i am against Fornication (Sex before Marriage), i think allowing Sex before Marriage sets a horrible precedent on the relationship, also many guys (being influenced by our modern sex focused society) would naturally be gravitated to have sex as soon as possible, leading to a wrong set of priorities in a relationship, but you also have to talk it over with your partner and put trust in them at the end of the day.
the acceptance of Fornication is what i see at the root of this, it is selfish by nature, there is no "Healthy" amount of Fornication either, if you accept it, you open the possibility of having sex with a person you don't really know all that much, and that builds doubt in your mind as to their true intentions.
if you want to date, then i would just say, outright say on the first date that you do not accept Fornication and that it is non-negotiable, think of it as "filtering" the men, personally i do it too with women.
nonetheless this sex-war nonsense is dumb and stupid, everyone is human, which means everyone can be a Selfish Bastard/Bitch.
i'm putting the blame on both OP and you here with having this nonsense discussion, it's unproductive and just serves to just jerk each other off, you peddle your nonsense ideas as if they are "being real", but really it's just Cynicism.
Cynicism is the ideology for the weak, because you have given up all hope, it is not "enlightenment", you are too weak to put trust in others, you are too weak to have hope.
you cry about the fact that there is injustice and evil inherent to the world, but your worst nightmare is actually when there is Justice and Good being done, because it exposes you to your own shortcomings.
this is why you feel the need to deride anyone who exposes your nonsense as a child or stupid, there is higher purpose to life, and it's retarded for you to call me the fool for understanding something that you don't.
>moids are incapable of liking anyone
if men are incapable of Loving anyways, how do you explain Men who would immediately take a bullet for their Wife, ask men that question and they wouldn't even think it, the immediate answer is yes.
what would be the other explanation of that behavior? do they do it because it's expected of them by Society? then why did Ideas of Chivalry resonate so strongly with men? did the Institutions of back then successfully indoctrinate the men? or was it because men inherently respect and Love the woman so much for what they bring to the world?
in reality Chivalry is an expression of respect to what women gave to men, the Father protects the Children from physical dangers, this applies in general, includes Poverty, but the *Mother* is what makes the boy into the man, she protects the Children from Spiritual Dangers, and helps them understand the world on an emotional level and makes them reason with it spiritually.
Bad People exist everywhere, really it's just human to have the capability to do Bad, in the same way it is human to have the capability to do Good.
just because there are men who are scum doesn't mean every man is scum, the same way how there are women who are whores but that doesn't mean everyone is.
does it mean that all women automatically view me as a Human Dildo just because i am Tall, Well Built, and good looking?
no, that isn't the case at all, i can just discern with my own logic and empathy that that is not what is happening, some women who approached me may have been going in with genuine intent to actually get to know me.
the fact of the matter is, because i was shy and didn't take initiative, but because i looked attractive to many, most of my encounters would have the woman as the initiator, and it's just much more likely that it would be a whore looking for a quick fix.
also, i realized this not so long ago, women are quite ass at flirting tbh, the worst would get into the realm of Sexual harassment, and while many lonely dudes would say that they would love it if they did that, especially if the woman herself happens to have taken "advice" from someone in her friend group, it's really just awkward, doubly so for lonely guys (you can't even hold a non-sexual conversation, what makes you think you can talk to a woman when she is being suggestive, what do you think is gonna happen? you're gonna raise your hands up and she'll undress you? get real dawg).
you would fail to have a stable relationship if there isn't Trust both ways, if one partner trusts the other but the other can't find it in them to trust them, then it's just not going to work.
of course, i am against Fornication (Sex before Marriage), i think allowing Sex before Marriage sets a horrible precedent on the relationship, also many guys (being influenced by our modern sex focused society) would naturally be gravitated to have sex as soon as possible, leading to a wrong set of priorities in a relationship, but you also have to talk it over with your partner and put trust in them at the end of the day.
the acceptance of Fornication is what i see at the root of this, it is selfish by nature, there is no "Healthy" amount of Fornication either, if you accept it, you open the possibility of having sex with a person you don't really know all that much, and that builds doubt in your mind as to their true intentions.
if you want to date, then i would just say, outright say on the first date that you do not accept Fornication and that it is non-negotiable, think of it as "filtering" the men, personally i do it too with women.
nonetheless this sex-war nonsense is dumb and stupid, everyone is human, which means everyone can be a Selfish Bastard/Bitch.
i'm putting the blame on both OP and you here with having this nonsense discussion, it's unproductive and just serves to just jerk each other off, you peddle your nonsense ideas as if they are "being real", but really it's just Cynicism.
Cynicism is the ideology for the weak, because you have given up all hope, it is not "enlightenment", you are too weak to put trust in others, you are too weak to have hope.
you cry about the fact that there is injustice and evil inherent to the world, but your worst nightmare is actually when there is Justice and Good being done, because it exposes you to your own shortcomings.
this is why you feel the need to deride anyone who exposes your nonsense as a child or stupid, there is higher purpose to life, and it's retarded for you to call me the fool for understanding something that you don't.
>moids are incapable of liking anyone
if men are incapable of Loving anyways, how do you explain Men who would immediately take a bullet for their Wife, ask men that question and they wouldn't even think it, the immediate answer is yes.
what would be the other explanation of that behavior? do they do it because it's expected of them by Society? then why did Ideas of Chivalry resonate so strongly with men? did the Institutions of back then successfully indoctrinate the men? or was it because men inherently respect and Love the woman so much for what they bring to the world?
in reality Chivalry is an expression of respect to what women gave to men, the Father protects the Children from physical dangers, this applies in general, includes Poverty, but the *Mother* is what makes the boy into the man, she protects the Children from Spiritual Dangers, and helps them understand the world on an emotional level and makes them reason with it spiritually.
Bad People exist everywhere, really it's just human to have the capability to do Bad, in the same way it is human to have the capability to do Good.
just because there are men who are scum doesn't mean every man is scum, the same way how there are women who are whores but that doesn't mean everyone is.
@tomie
If you don't see men as human, that's a you problem.