I am still so disturbed by this. She is a dumb hippie, but is she totally apathetic to my well being?
There are 2 options:
Either:
She is so brainwashed, she does not realize, that I might also want to have kids of my own one day, I might also preffer a woman without serious mental issues, AND I might want a wife who will not torture me for eating a food, that is 3/4 of my caloric intake.
Or:
She is truly malevolent. She cared about her friends more then about her step brother, and hoped, that I won't notice, that that kind of person would ruin my life.
Is is still even possible to not rule out stupidity in this extreme case?
When I think about it, the entire topic got extremely heated the moment I said, that it is a woman's fault of she becomes a single mom.
And she is considering becoming a single mom at the moment, so I get why it might have hit a nerve, but... it's funny.
She chose the guy. Why should I pretend it wasn't her choice?
@LukeAlmighty Why not bring up that you don’t want to raise another man’s child, her fault or not?
@NEETzsche
Well, I said the reverse.
I said, that I want MY KIDS too. And she understood that part.