@dave
I love these reversed feminist memes, especially, since they ALWAYS miss the point.

You don’t think there are a ton of average-looking guys getting past dating age that wasted their youth on hedonistic vices and haven’t yet accepted their lack of dating market value that this meme would apply to?

@dave
Yes.
I believe, that average looking guys are not choosing to stay alone, but are simply skipped by the dating market.

Have you ever heard the qote?
> I would love to date a guy just like you.
That qote is a genetical death sentence.

@dave
To say to a 30yo virgin to stop watching porn is the same kind of intelligent advice as saying to homeless guy to buy a house.

@dave
In short, there is NOTHING easier for a young woman to do, then to find a good husband.

As long as she can follow the simple rules, that most modern women find laughable.

Doge, you can turn this same statement around and it's nearly as true for men, the only added difficulty is learning how to make the first move.

1. Get in shape, don't get sucked into vices that keep you holed up by yourself
2. Study hard and get a good job
3. Learn basic flirting

You now have all the tools you need to be attractive to a decent woman. Most men can do this.
This is literally not being yourself. This is you rejecting all the things, that have made you yourself, that made the dating market seem so hopeless for you in the first place.
You're a faggot that doesnt know shit about shit and its apparent you havent touched grass anytime within the last 10 years and are a social and relational dinosaur. Clown world of today doesnt work like that anymore.
Yes. This is literally exactly how it works. Every time I've gotten laid, it was by doing some form of this. I was in decent shape, I tried to be polite, tried to be flirty (never was very good, but I tried), and it worked out.
> Yes. This is literally exactly how it works.
No, it isn't.
> Every time I've gotten laid
This didn't happen.
> it worked out.
It didn't.
Dog, now you just sound like a poastie. In the long run you'll be happier if you learn to stop denying reality.

@dave @CumskinFoidPuncher69420
Dog, now you just sound like a glassinator. In the long run you'll be happier if you learn to stop denying reality.

The difference is that I've actually flirted with girls and had sex while doing some amount of the (get fit, get good job) stuff. As a guy with an average face and a touch of the 'tism, I know from experience that most guys can get a girl if they do the above.

@CumskinFoidPuncher69420 @LukeAlmighty

Nope, it’s true. But I have to add that I honestly regret the sexual encounters I had before marrying.

I think girls are as desperately looking for good spouses as men. But neither knows how to be a good spouse.

Good advice from @dave and also from @polarisera . It will probably work for girls as well.

What if you actually felt good about yourself for volunteering. Your self worth was no longer based on internet clout and linear comparisons to other loser males? And that very internal self-regard was detectable by a more sensitive member of the opposite sex, not really interested in that dumbassery of boyish rep. It's not out of the question, that after a few months of volunteering, some chick that had been ignoring your gamer-wanker vibe, suddenly noticed something very different about you, but couldn't quite figure it out, and just had to stop and ask you.

Girl: "You just seem like such a different person now." "I can't believe I used to think that about you." "Oh really, that is so cool."

You: "Yeah, I feel different, too. You know I really found myself, I feel comfortable being me now. I no longer think taking estrogen and feeling up my own tits is cool. I don't think skirts should go spinny, in fact I'm not even wearing them anymore. I think I'm ready to take life seriously as the man god made me. You know, I'm not really religious, but I've become quite spiritual, I see nature differently now. Nature is not there to be conquered or fought with drugs. It's part of us."

Girl: "Do you want kids?"
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@polarisera @CumskinFoidPuncher69420 @dave @useless_idiot
Fucking fairytale.
My life and job couldn't possibly be better. And my self esteem is great.
It means nothing in this dating market.

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