How many of you have disempowerment trauma from when you were little kids and adults would straight up tell you to do things you didn't want to do and you had to or you'd be punished?
I really think if you are in a legal age gap relationship and someone criticizes you then you should really just tell that person to fuck off. There is no reason to debate rights you are already legally entitled to.
@Remejy In ancient times I bet it was in some cultures, I bet they even had names for it in their own language like "man milk" or "man lower nipple" or something