@picandor @matana @moth_ball
As a straight male, this one is simple.
It takes YEARS of painful reprogramming to be able to acknowledge, that not all women are perfect. This is why, a judge can have a clear case of woman killing her BF in cold blood, and just end it with:

She might be guilty, but I do not want to ruin her career.
https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2017/may/16/oxford-university-lavinia-woodward-stabbed-boyfriend-may-avoid-jail