ひげ
Was scrolling through Instagram videos and there was one of a mom and her daughter dressing identically and doing a little dance, and EVERYONE IN THE COMMENTS was saying shit like "you are grooming her!" and sexualizing the fuck out of it.
The normies are not okay, man. What kind of mental torment/gymnastics do you have to go through to see that and view it as sexual?? 
@beardalaxy
Since you were a little child
In every single TV show. In every news segment. From every adult. All I ever heard was:
> Fucking kids is bad. Looking at kids is bad. Helping kids is prety much grooming. Joking with kids is predatory etc.
Any interaction of above 18 with below 18 is shown as not only illegal, but straight up evil. And this was done for so long, that now, people no longer have the mental framework of how to treat kids at all in a non-structured way.
@beardalaxy
BTW, this is just another extension of the good old "conscent form" problem.
These people have been complaining about what is "bad" for so long, that now, the only good alternative is a fucking legal document.
@beardalaxy
But the base is simply in assuming, that all alcions could end up bad, instead of all actions can end up wholesome.
(I am still fighting with just how deep this distinction is in my own mind right now.)