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@Victor_Emmanuel @RealRaul That being said you CAN break those habits, probably better than you think. One ex was immensely slovenly and lazy, spent all her time “depressed” and locked in her dirty room. Not long after we went our separate ways she got married to some always-smiling guy and she’s a totally different person. Sis says she’s a hard working wife now, has a pt job saving up for kid #1

Changing her environment, support structure can change a lot

(although I came back to a very dirty house so it seems we still have a lot of work to do)

@LukeAlmighty @PonyPanda Chicks are wired different though, competition isn’t so much an active thing they engage in, it’s passive, like holding a hand in poker. There’s an active component where they try to self-improve (by their standards) to get better cards, but in social situations they’re closely attuned to who’s holding what and where they stack up.

And as a hornyposter myself, I’ll admit I would severely curtail my activities the second I have a child of speaking age, and I would never even have done it once if my name and face were attached.

You have to expect that your sons will see EVERYTHING you do online at some point, and you gotta understand that they will take every bit of excess as carte blanche to go as far as you did and then some.

For a father of 5? A married dad? Yeah…..I’d really have a hard time respecting mine doing this kind of stuff. (assuming the swinger’s week at ‘hedonism’ thing is true)

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SEE? SEE? This is yet ANOTHER problem caused by the total lack of children in our society. Now that the baseline, the normal is being a childless bachelor as a man, we’ve totally missed out on all the little lessons from old people saying “now kid, you’re a father. From now on you gotta shape up, you can’t do that kind of thing, your kids look to you for guidance“.

Nope, now being a father is no different from being a masturbatory, hedonistic bachelor, your sons aren’t allowed to expect any sort of moral standard from you, you have every right to take care of you and you alone. It’s just so selfish and dumb, and damaging to your kids’ chances of building a healthy life, a disciplined sex life, and a solid marriage. Why get married and settle down when you know your dad’s letting other people do weird pervert shit to your mother? Why respect him?

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Had this woman been raised in a healthy environment all this thinking would be directed to very good, eugenic things. Instead she’s trying to merge healthy instincts with societal programming to rewrite her life into something it’s not

It’s like they’re trying to cater to the extremely enlightened centrist who loudly says “well I hate both sides equally!”

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@mmmfeet @DrRyanSkelton classic!

(literally read this one to the gf as a bedtime story when I discovered it, it’s so cute how they’re doing a trial honeymoon as she tries to get him to be open about his feelings. Sure, raunchy and sex filled, but so are we)

@WashedOutGundamPilot I know how women accomplish happiness.

They lie.

I knew a woman that was very much a dead egg meme post-wall casualty. First sign that she was lonely and unhappy, she wanted to talk to me. She was talking to me all night about a whole lot of bullshit. She was talking about her boyfriend being a film writer and some supposed :project" she was working on. She talked for like 3 hours nonstop. The man she was describing as her "boyfriend" I already knew wasn't because she talks about him in her the blog of her business and she mentions that the guy that fits his very specific description.

When it was about time to leave, I asked her what her boyfriend's job was. She said he was he was in consulting. Then she realized that she contradicted herself and awkwardly tried to explain he was somehow both. Now this could be true but the way she did it was so obvious she was lying and trying to cover it up.
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> It honestly amazes me how loveless people are today. They’re so self-centered that every little thing they do has to be about them.

what amazes me is the concern for worrying about if the other person did their share. like wtf how self centered are you and/or how self centered is your SO that you need or want to worry about that? if you legitimately need to worry about them taking advantage of you then why are you in a relationship with them to begin with?

the extent of my concerns are don't touch my fucking laundry you do it all wrong but I'm just picky about certain things :puniko_shrug:

> she doesn’t like it when I wash clothes with the bedsheets

blocked+muted+defederated you heathen :reeeee:

@anime_outdoor Flashing back to all the times as a kid when I’d beg my mom to stop mopping when it was raining because I KNEW she’d be pissed when the first kid walks across the floor soaking we

@WashedOutGundamPilot >they STILL think men want to marry a career woman
How are they so stupid?
Sorry but the artists need a self insert (no pun intended)
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