@TheMadPirate @ChristiJunior @kino Most women aren't this way by nature, they are made to be like this. If you leave little girls to their own devices, most end up playing house and playing with dolls that resemble babies. The fantasies of your average teenage girl, if left alone, does entail them marrying a high-merit male, but that's normal and sane. However, very few of them have this Sex and the City fantasy where they don't need no man and refuse to settle for anything short of Gigachad. In fact, many girl-coded works of fiction like Disney movies involve a high-merit man ascending into a high-status position by dint of his merit, and ultimately getting the virgin bride as a reward for this.
Women aren't born the way they are now. They are made into this. They have a sense of their own natural value as wives and mothers, and don't denigrate it with careerist bullshit even if they do fantasize about having skillsets outside of making homes and babies, but even then those skillsets are almost always portrayed as a means to attracting the high-status male they want.
In many ways, certain men (not the incels, hilariously) are as responsible for this mess if not more so than women are. If you raise little girls to think that eschewing their natural role for MUH CAREER while allowing Gigachad to cum in/on them without any normal pair bonding, what do you expect to happen?
I don't usually like getting too wrapped up in this because gender politics is low-hanging fruit. But just remember... the issue goes way deeper than you or I having trouble finding a mate.