yes certainly very good points.
basically one can not "escape" earth society by going to some other place on Earth and starting up a community, because Earth is a hologram, and all the same issues that are endemic to the Earth will arise.
I know it in my own family, in my community, etc, it's all a hologram. Basically wherever we are we will be faced with the "shadow". Even if we are alone as a hermit in a cave in mountain, then the shadow will be a part of our consciousness.
The objective as far as I can tell is to forgive and love every aspect, every person, every thought, feeling, word and action. Every rock, plant, animal, gust and drop. Everything is a messenger of one infinite creator, alerting us to yet another step on our spiritual journey we can yet take further.
I think human rights are a good starting point, as is distributism. Basically so if any of us were to make a community, my idea is that each person would have enough land to grow their own food/fuel/clothing. So even if they are "ostracized" from the group, they will not be left homeless and without a means of subsistence. And perhaps in time whatever rift there was will heal.
As I remember reading the L/L work is that time is love as space is light. So time time/love heals all wounds eventually. The important factor being to give the opportunity for that to occur.
I remember a narrative of Hatonn where a child had this faith that in time the community they had found would grow to accept him, though his patience was greater than how long the body could go without food or whatever it was. Still their example of love and patience is considered a good one, even if a martyr.
But yeah, I hope to lower the amount of martyring happening if at all possible, to give people an opportunity to have more time/love for contemplation and healing. Indeed most on Earth do not even live to 150 which is like when a child becomes an adolescent/adult. I know I've had many lifetimes cut short on Earth due to being killed in a variety of circumstances, peaceful deaths were perhaps a minority of those I experienced. Though it could also be a bias as peaceful deaths may be less memorable.