@tsukiko@freak.university It's a fetish, but whatever. I understand that, but that attraction is wrong, because it would hurt people if you went out of your way to satisfy it.
@miria @tsukiko@freak.university You are asking me to prove 2+2=4
@applejack @miria @tsukiko@freak.university I have doubts about that. At least in the west. Yeah people married sooner or had symbolic marriages for purposes of wealth and power transfers, but I don't think that adults fucking preteens was common. The couple from Sneedsville made headlines meaning it was something you don't see every day.
@matrix @miria @tsukiko@freak.university
Because it was late 19th, when it was shifting
This Roman/Greek one even explicitly says they married at 12 for procreation
They menstruate at 12 for a reason
https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1300/J056v16n02_03
https://www.thecollector.com/pedophilia-ancient-greece-rome/
@matrix @miria @tsukiko@freak.university Also us (note: "time they reached adulthood at 12 to 15"), America, and England
https://www.historyonthenet.com/viking-society-women-and-children
@matrix @miria @tsukiko@freak.university
>Teens marrying is much more different than an adult marrying a preteen
12 is pedophilic under modern definitions, so it includes kids aswell as teens
If a teen/LG can get married and be a mother, what sort of mechanism prevents them from being the same thing when the husband is older? Why does the brain switch into trauma mode?
@applejack @miria @tsukiko@freak.university
Being older usually gives people a higher amount of authority, which is something that can be abused. If you have both teens, they usually have similar amount of knowledge and experience with relationships and sex, but if you have an adult and a teen, the adult usually has more knowledge and experience so that they can impose themselves on them.
Teen pregnancy is still wrong though.
@applejack @miria @tsukiko@freak.university Biological parents have a big incentive to not abuse their children and mothers even experience a chemical reaction bonding them to the child so no.
@applejack
No. I mean that parents have an incentive to raise a healthy offspring so they carry their genes and that mother's after birth experience a huge hormone surge.
@miria @tsukiko@freak.university
@applejack @miria @tsukiko@freak.university
*mothers
@applejack
Partner to share life with? Mother of your children? I don't understand why are you asking this question?
@miria @tsukiko@freak.university
@applejack @miria @tsukiko@freak.university Yeah they do but that preference hovers around 3 years and also about head difference in height if I remember correctly
@applejack
Well yeah, but that's also not pedophilia. Yeah it might stretch a bit but not an entire generation.
@miria @tsukiko@freak.university
@matrix @applejack @miria @tsukiko@freak.university
This actually does make me question, why do most women expect to be treated like childern while dating.
Because when you think about it, after a child marriage, that wold make them do the same behavior for years before she was ready.
@applejack @miria @tsukiko@freak.university This does not mention the age of both partners if I'm reading right. I'm pretty sure puberty was considered marrying age of both boys and girls. Teens marrying is much more different than an adult marrying a preteen.