Ruzu @carlosruzu@gameliberty.club

@Zerglingman yeah what programs do i need for xmpp and where do i learn to use them

@miria @FallenFadedLostItAll@freak.university @Aldo2 @applejack "but if that's the problem, then just teach them about it. Oh wait, you don't want that, because they're not supposed to be taught about it or something"

I'm actually up for better sex ed if you read my shit. The issue is, getting sex ed from the dude trying to fuck you is like getting dating tips from the dude thats interested in your crush: they don't have your best interests

@Zerglingman thats the thing, this shit fest literally started because i jokingly said "lolicons are oppressed" and we had a cool convo about why lolicons arent pedos until fucking these mfs came in. reported miria to the cybertipline since they are hellebent on "no age of consent"

@Zerglingman nope, actual people that say that "the age of consent should be abolished". Also I'm down whenever atm since I'm jobless lol. Try to aim for 7 PM - 2 AM CST though. Also how do you use xmpp?

@miria @FallenFadedLostItAll@freak.university @applejack @Aldo2 I did answer your question, the answer being put into more blunt terms being "how the fuck can you consent to something you don't know jack shit about". I even gave you an out "before you fuck kids, ask their parents for permission"

@miria @FallenFadedLostItAll@freak.university @Aldo2 @applejack
>How can you tell that anyone of any age is in the "proper mental state" (whatever that means, you just made it up)? I thought it was just thinking about what you're being offered and accepting it?

can't really think if you're not mature enough to make that decision. If you really want to fuck them, just ask the parents, not that hard

@Zerglingman i really should get to work on that comic. too busy making pedo copers mald
also yes killing floor, i also can reinstall my modded rim modlist, play l4d2 and risk of rain 2
>gae
3 issues with getting rid of discord; irl friends don't want to get rid of it; i have a 100 member server; hot chinese cosplayer that i met at my first anime con talks to me on discord

@miria @FallenFadedLostItAll@freak.university @Aldo2 @applejack because you can't tell if the child is in the proper mental space to consent. at best, you can go the parents and ask for their blessing for yall to fuck since you want to do kids so badly. If they are fine with it, I can't report if I don't know if you actually follwed this retarded advice

@miria @Aldo2 @FallenFadedLostItAll@freak.university @applejack the idea of informed consent isn't hard. Its just the idea that you've actually thought about the sexual shit you have been offered and accept it on the basis that you get exactly what you asked for. That's why traps are funny, because the idea of a dude being into another dude because he thinks he's a woman conveys that idea that obviously its bad for someone to get something they didn't ask when it comes to something like sex

@miria @Melon @Aldo2 @LukeAlmighty @applejack I am

@miria @FallenFadedLostItAll@freak.university @Aldo2 @applejack none of us care about shit related to pol extremism, we just understand that sex is more than enjoyment. you can't bank on rightoid hatred to justify this shit

@miria @FallenFadedLostItAll@freak.university @applejack @Aldo2 since blocking doesn't work to scrub you off my screen, lemme entertain this a bit.

maybe its not that sex is bad, its that sex without clearly made out consent is bad. Also if the idea is that its rape if she doesn't like it, it would also lead to most sex being rape, along with sex being more confusing in general

@miria @FallenFadedLostItAll@freak.university @Aldo2 @applejack nice joke. unfortunately i reported you to the cybertipline

@yes expand?

@FallenFadedLostItAll@freak.university @Aldo2 @applejack also theres a difference between being a realist that says that its fine to have destinations along the journey of the eternal struggle to stop at and appreciate before you continue on and then someone trying to optimize society for the sake of optimizing society. Plus optimizing society, even in spite of free will, would ruin the argument for things like abortion lol: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=93rVM6FnkOQ

Life is too short to focus on perfecting it, just appreciate life as it is and try to make the most out of its restraints

@FallenFadedLostItAll@freak.university @Aldo2 @applejack The eternal struggle is beautiful not because you expect to "win" in some other sense against the struggle; its beautiful because in the face of the fact that no reality humanity creates will be perfect, we try and better ourselves anyway

Sisyphus doesn't push the rock hoping for the cycle to end. He just accepts theres a cycle and participates in it to spite the potential outcome where he gives up, thus making him the absurd hero

@FallenFadedLostItAll@freak.university @Aldo2 @applejack
>Gender identity itself is another detivative, a bunch of categories and classifications that differentiate between pronoun preferences and a variety of social and aesthetic characteristics that... Are sexist in the first place. Theres no need for the "this is manly, thats feminine, this specific combination of masculine and feminine traits needs to categorized and labeled with a gender identity title". All we actually need is a single pronoun for a person or multiple people. "They" functions just fine as both, and is already becoming the default.

thats literally counter intuitive to a good amount of people, especially dyshporic people. Gender roles go a long way legitimately towards helping them feel like they fit in in spite of their dysphoria. Along with that, especially with masculinity at least, I can confirm that guys benefit from having a set of standards that they are suppossed to excel in due to their gender. Is it superficial that guys mainly want success in life due to these "social constructs". Sure for the short term but that superficial motivation also helps us go farther and achieve in the first place, creating another motivation for being productive other than simply passion for something, as relying on pure passion for something is unreliable and sporadic. In fact, using myself, I'll work more on my certification than my hobbys not because the certification course expires in a couple of months and that sense of urgency pushes me. Socially constructs aren't inherently bad, we just need to make sure they are flexible enough to respect people's free will while giving guidelines in case they feel directionless. Gender roles can easily fall into that

>What point is there to inventing all these new pronouns and categories in the battle against sexism, when all it does is create more sexism? The whole concept of a gender identity is... ridiculous. It used to make sense because male and female were specific roles in a primitive society. Those roles now overlap and are entirely obsolete. You sex matters for medical reasons and for the ability to procreate; it does not, or should not, matter anywhere else in this advanced, "civilized" society.

Sure, if we are to take the most materialistic approach to life and whatnot, no gender identities don't matter. Hell, I agree that creating more gender identities aren't productive. But to act like as if people still don't use gender for interactions in life, from things like making judgements about whether we should have women in the battlefield down to even relating to other people, is to ignore most people's opinions on the matter. As a dude, talking with the other sex is hard as those sexual urges can kick in especially and just make tensions higher, thus leading to guys having commradery over that experience since its specific to dudes.
I don't se the use in new gender identities or even pronouns and what not. However, I can say for sure that there are shared experiences that dudes have that women won't relate to in this century, if ever, and vice versa. Gender abolition makes no sense, and neither does removing all pronouns except for "they"