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The thing so call “romance” in media is designed to be fail. There was no dramatic romance, but the common interest was having children. (= More manpower in a big family)

And the thing (rare case nowadays) can keep the couple’s relationship until they die is accommodating and patience and empathy, not the salvation in Disney and dramas.

Dramatic romance never fail in fictions. I don’t care people want to live in their wonderland in whole life though.

But I detest the ego of people to use fictional #romantic expectation to demand people in real life.

The ones with stronger Cinderella expectation = more offensive to another person after they find out it doesn’t work.

How to detect a person having Cinderella expectation to you? (You can notice these behaviours for your own safety)

That person is nice at first.(As fairytales)

That person find out you are nice, and you are kindness, thus he/she likes you. Because in their own Cinderella expectation, they are going to looking for a good person to finish their own salvation carefully. It’s targeted to damage the few good people in this world. If you act like a slut or PUA, you are not going to meet this, but would like to using Cinderella expectation damage other people.

Then you better to take some time to notice.

Whatever you start a romantic relationship or just be a friend, that person is slowly NOT understand you are yourself, but another person in their dream, here are some cases as example :

If you are gay openly, that nice friend would tell you are actually straight or bi. (So you can have a relationship with her/him)

Strongly against you might have the idea of celibate, if you have the idea of celibate, insulting other celibate people in the society. (Because that person is looking for his own benefit)

Telling you what is a bad partner would be, in his own standard. And verbal attacking people in the society with those lifestyle.(Because that person is fearful you may not under the control of his expectation)

If you are non-binary, they usually want you to turn cisgender or tell you being more cis. (For his own sexuality)

If he knows you have health issue, he would tell you better to have a job or work hard. (For his own expectation)

If you are not willing to change yourself, YOU ARE EVEN NOT A HUMAN! (Princess Bella)

But there are some changes that person demanded may not be caused by unrealistic expectations, but the well-being of you: like get rid of drugs/ alcohol/ eating disorders/ internet cults… Just wanted to drag you back to being more normal from clearly a shit hole.

After they find out these doesn’t work, and they are going to do something you dislike.

If you are unwilling to follow the idea of these parasites, they are going to start bitching: Keeping doing something you said you dislike already. (Because in his expectation, he deserves the tolerance)And then you lost a friend or a relationship.

If you pretend to change yourself for that person in a while (and his behavior is not such annoying), that means you might have some expectation to that person and want him to change himself for you as well. This changing tug of war game is the thing that lead to many relationships into decades of torturing.

Until someday, you’ll find out, this is NOT work. And this is the reason of many people divorce after they have many years of marriage. Even decades of marriage. I know many people divorce after they are 60, they just suddenly find out, “I don’t have to do all these changing for a person in my life” as a burden. I better to not have such a burden.

I just didn’t take so many years or decades, and found out that from a “friend” in a few months, many years ago.

See? These are all about the mental masturbation of their own expectation, and you are an object and a tool to fulfil their own expectation. They are just wanted a humanoid tool who looks nice at first, make their wet dream more realistic.

I think the source of this is caused by the mother don’t give a shit to a baby all other things, but only provide bottle milk as food. But still want the child running her own agenda, especially working mothers. So the child copied her behaviour in the relationship later life, and they think it works. They can’t mentally against such a mother. It’s like the behaviour pattern of the boss of work place: I don’t give a s* of the feeling of you, but you have to finish my expectation. So the Chain of cause and effect should be:

The boss: “I don’t give a s* of the feeling of you, but you have to finish my expectation. And I want cheap labours, have to make a call to my buddy Rockefellers and Rothschilds to fund more money to feminism to create more slaves to being cheap labours in the market.” –> The working mothers: Have to get more money for my own well-being because of feminism. And the child better to do everything I want him to do, but I want to give lesser and lesser parental investment. This is most cost-effective. I learn it from my textbook and my boss. The lowest cost of don’t let the child such bothering to other people is let the child sit down and focus on Disney shows. SO I CAN WORK FOR MY OWN MONEY. (I think those Islam extremists want to break the chain of this…) –> The child: “Where is my mum?” (In working place) “Sigh, better to watch more Disney, and I am going to get all these back, from the true love, as Disney told us: “Cause for the first time in forever, I won’t be alone🎵🎵”. Looking for the true love as Disney! Love is imagination. “A whole new world A new fantastic point of view No one to tell us no Or where to go Or say we are only dreaming🎵🎵”

Everyone is somehow connected to each other.

Deep and long relationship is the contest of 2 families. I am not going to being your Disney style redeemer, but I just want those losers to stop bitching and tell you get rid of them soon, before you mess up in your many years of marriage, because they are super annoying. They usually won’t show their true colours first. Sometimes they might suddenly change after the wedding. So many cases reported after the characteristics of partner big change after the wedding. That’s their true self.

They are actually parasites of forbidding people just being nice in the society. Once time a person acts nice, they will try to be parasitic on it. HATE them extremely.

Just keep your common sense in any relationship. Don’t do compromise that totally doesn’t fit your common sense in the relationship.

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These people are in a cult. It doesn’t matter that the “vaccine” they worship failed. It doesn’t matter that the booster they speak of as the savior is a very high risk low reward gamble that might work in a best case scenario another few months. None of it matters. They are brainwashed cult members…
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In Switzerland, you can be arrested and put in prison for up to three years for making homophobic comments. That includes any statements made on social media, or generally in public.
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@ChristiJunior the best guy on the climate is Steve McIntyre of climateaudit, his blog is just full of lengthy decomposing the data and models and reasoning of the people who control the climate record and showing where and how they faked it and why. Tony Heller on youtube is also pretty good but he's a little wacky
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US Pol Predictions :tinfoil:  

- Kamala Harris will be the President by this time next year, either by way of Sleepy Joe resigning out of health/mental problems, or his death (if you think things are bad now with a geriatric meat puppet in "power," wait until we've actually got a woke authoritarian running the show).
- The District of Columbia will be declared a state within Harris' term. This will "fortify" her re-election and possibly her successor's, who will be handpicked because American elections will be 100% show at this point (I'm not sure who this will be, I have theories but this won't be until atleast 2028 and a lot can happen in that time. I'm also not necessarily saying it will be a "Democrat," they may very well put a Neo-con in power to carry on the same agenda under a different banner for a term or two, kinda like Obama continuing Bush's work).
- The Republican party is probobly going to split in two; the "Trump" party, and the "Bush" party. I theorize that this was the long game that Kushner and co were playing from the very start when they got Trump elected, creating a divisive element in the party, causing it to break apart by way of cult of personality (again, parties are meaningless in reality, this has more to do with pushing a divide an conquer agenda and controlling the flow of American culture than any actual "elections," it's mostly for show).
- There will be a major false flag framing up right-wing/dissidents as domestic terrorists inside the next two years (it will not be like 01/06, I think that was a test run to see how much they could get MAGA types to do on their own with some glowie coercion, this is going to be something more coordinated, closer to the Oklahoma CIty bombing), this will be used as justification for further suppression of speech and expanding the surveillance state, probobly a Patriot Act 2.
- At-least one or more of the major states are going to declare succession by 2030. This isn't the same as the empty threats that get thrown around by California and Texas every few years, this will be the real deal. If I were to bet, I think it's going to be the greater Idaho area for reasons that would take too long to explain here.
- The US' Balkanization, will be the major political issue for the 2030's, it's too early to say how it will go, or what form it will take.
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I can understand why climate skepticism is so hard for people to accept, because you need to have a very very stable robust worldview that exists independently of virtually every single institutional authority on this subject, and the vast majority of people can't handle that and it's easier for them to just defer to the supposed experts
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The majority of us will prevail. It is always the minority that makes the most news demanding we kowtow to their idiotic ideology of tyranny.

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@alex this is one of those rare pandemics that just stops when you ignore it
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You are allowed to hate both china and the USA you know

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"Password managers? Email managers are what I need.."

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@matrix @ChristiJunior @racism_man @SunShineSucks "We need to help you get better" should be how we handle dysphoria. As it is we're handling it like if we were to have everyone eat rocks and coins to placate people suffering from pica.
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> the she-boon mayor of Baton Rouge makes an ad telling kids to get vaxxed
> during ad, surrounded by silent kids wearing mask
> doesnt wear a mask the whole time

Fuck off

m.youtube.com/watch?v=zx8o1soRe0M
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