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@ChristiJunior @wizard_problems @shitgrifter @sickburnbro Women who can't have kids still have XX chromosomes and all the other indicators of being a woman.
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Try to improve your skill at being bad at things. When you try something new, you start out being bad at it. Most people, especially as they become adults, don't like being bad at things.

By reducing aversion to being bad at things, you find it easier to try new things, and become good at more things.

Beginner's mind.
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We need to dispel this myth that the fediverse is small. It is not. The decentralised nature of the fediverse simply fractures things so you never see how active the network is from one instance alone and assume it is dead because of this. You have to move around the network to find more people and get a feel for how large it is. It has continued to grow over the years since I've been here. It amazes me when I branch away from my own fedi bubbles to realise that there are so many people on here that I will never be able to talk with everyone or get to know them.
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@Moon I am not leaving!

In fact I'm preparing a fork discussion, see https://framadate.org/c9WHhvj6i6vKA7Bd for the hours and it gives a link to the big blue button.
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@Moon This. I'm not huge on code of conducts, but having some guidelines, quite like most instances or forums would probably have been a good idea.
Even if in that case I wouldn't be surprised if they would have been bent anyway, like the rest of the (un)written policies.
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I'm not a fan of codes of conduct but when your project explodes maybe having some guidelines would have been good
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Okay, be honest. How many of you legitimately have autism?

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